When you want to get back together with your ex, sometimes you do not really stop to consider whether it’;s the right thing to do … or not. We get so blinded by our love for that person that we do not really consider if they are the best thing for us. Well, I’;ve got a success story about someone that I know. And if you want to get back together with your ex, you need to read this.
This is a long story but I’;ve condensed it to cover the basics.
My friend’;s name? … Well, let’;s just call her Angel. She had been seeing this guy for over 20 years. They even had a kid together. In those 20 years, the guy was flat out mean to Angel in all aspects from physically to emotional to mentally abusive. She never did anything right, she never looked the way he thought she should, and basically nothing she did was good enough. And though many would advise Angel to leave, she loved the guy and just could think of being without him.
Well, their child grew up and as soon as she turned 21she moved out of the house and Angel … she was kicked out of the house because it was not hers. He did not want to marry her and he decreed it was time for someone new.
As you can imagine, this was a very difficult time for Angel. She always tried to please her man and do for him what she could only find nothing was good enough. And now, she was on her own to try and make it.
Some time went by since the breakup. In that time, Angel started finding herself again. She became more confident and self secure. She started developing a life of her own and doing things she loved. She was changing, reinventing herself, finding her wings. She was discovering her own personal beauty and enjoining her freedom.
In the meantime of course, since Angel and her ex shared a child between them they still stayed in touched. And though she started down a new path, she never stopped loving her ex. Apparently her ex liked the new her too because as fate would have it, since her friends’; pleas to not get back together with your ex, Angel and her man were back together again.
But even though she had changed in a multitude of ways for the better, he never did. Because low and bare upon rekindling their relationship, his same old habits kicked in. The mental, emotional, and verbal abuse was back. The being told where to go and what to do had begun again and the constant nitpicking at appearance had also returned.
Nothing between the two of them had changed. But Angel had … and because of that, shortly after getting back together, Angel had decided she had enough. Yes, she still loved the man but if he could not treat her with respect and love, then she was not staying.
Today Angel is a happy, strong, independent woman. The burdens of the past relationship are off her shoulders and she walks tall and proud. She has an air of confidence about her and carries herself the in a way that would make Princess Diana proud.
The best part is that because of the person she became and is still becoming, she’;s grabbing guys’; attention all over the place. They are drawn to her like bees to honey. And she get’;s to pick now which one’;s she’;d like to get to know as they line up with hopes to grab some of her attention.
She is happy and life is great. I have asked her since, "Would you still like to get back together with your ex.," To which I hear a four letter word followed by a resounding no … "Hell no" being the response.